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River
Mon Jun 23 2008, 9:49am
Abe was speaking on The Secret Behind the Secret . I got something by hearing this that really spoke to me, an aha moment about how we should enjoy the feeling of love flowing through us and not depend on it from anyone else. Here is my imperfect transcript:

Questioner asks what is the value of friendship? What should we look for? NOTHING.
A: We should for connection to source, and then you radiate to all.
Questioner asks about loneliness...

A: We have loneliness because you are not allowing the fullness of who you are to flow through you.

Don't ask anything from another to fill void. Allow your connection to source . You look to others, for somebody to love you. It feels delicious, and they flood you with source energy. You need their undivided attention, and when they pay attention to something else, you are a puppet like a balloon on a string being let go.

INSTEAD
"If you are interested in the feeling of love flowing through you, rather than being loved by someone else. You are self sufficient . You are connected to this eternal stream. "

Look for connection to source, not to each other, then you radiate out for that. Look to others for examples of well being,

Source can only fullfill void. Not another person.

Negative emotion is separation from that which you are. When you are in the lower vibrations, we don't join you in that vibration. It is an indication of separation from that which is you.

Thoughts?

Shannon

Cantabile
Mon Jun 23 2008, 8:35pm
Hi Shannon, this was also discussed by Abe, here:

YouTube- Broadcast Yourself.

Everything Abe says, makes sense. Now I realize how people become lost because they are not in alignment of who they are. They think that to find a significant other fills that void. People are obsessed with the concept of soul mate. I believe that your chosen love is your soul mate, because you have chosen to have a wonderful co-creative experience with him. :D

Watch the video. Abe answered a LOT of questions I have in mind. :D

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River
Mon Jun 23 2008, 9:38pm
I watched it-those were great! It reinforces the idea of finding your own joy first. I needed that.

:heart: :heart: Shannon