Mariposa
Thu May 27 2010, 11:35am
Hi Beloved Friends/Family
Rodney is napping and I am sick, coughing like crazy.
I came to the forum and saw a bunch of people arguing, and others leaving, asking for the deletion of their accounts.
I see Key taking over.
Rodney and I were talking and found a lot of members joined back in the first days and never came back, for example, FemShine and so on.
Abetalk, just like life, as been through many many phases. We've had our joyful and loving moments, we've had our members getting mad and leaving slamming doors. We have our amazing charachters, we all find it hard sometimes, just like in life, to understand others, get along, even when we love them. Love and hate are one. Life and anything alive will show you the same pattern of duality. I personally see no need to decide that abetalk is good or bad, Key is good or bad, leaving is good or bad, staying is good or bad.
My point is you guys leave and then come back. I've seen it happen. Some have joined and they never really drank the abetalk juice of eternity. We have had our new comers spread us with surprises and it is all ever evolving.
We love you all and we trust your guidance. Personally, the way I see it, there is no need to leave or delete anything. It is all about focus, and this is the very teaching that brought us all together here in the first place, is it not?
I don't see why you are arguing with each other so much, I don't see why bother trying to convince anyone, even though here I come with my own word, of course.
I see grown ups fighting like children and I don't see the point. Nevertheless I know that you are what this family is made of, and what family doesn't have it's bad days? what person doesn't have bad days?
I would love for you guys to focus on what gives you joy and relief.
I know sometimes relief is found through the path of negative emotion.
Just wanted to say I am sorry you guys are feeling this place is not for you anymore, sorry you are finding the contrast a reason to leave.
I have seen my parents get divorced, and very little has changed deep inside.
I just want to say:
stay and work with it.
Stay and learn how to focus.
Stay and tune in with joy.
We would be delighted to watch you grow with us.
Let's befriend the contrast of not getting along.
Let's be a family.
Rodney is napping and I am sick, coughing like crazy.
I came to the forum and saw a bunch of people arguing, and others leaving, asking for the deletion of their accounts.
I see Key taking over.
Rodney and I were talking and found a lot of members joined back in the first days and never came back, for example, FemShine and so on.
Abetalk, just like life, as been through many many phases. We've had our joyful and loving moments, we've had our members getting mad and leaving slamming doors. We have our amazing charachters, we all find it hard sometimes, just like in life, to understand others, get along, even when we love them. Love and hate are one. Life and anything alive will show you the same pattern of duality. I personally see no need to decide that abetalk is good or bad, Key is good or bad, leaving is good or bad, staying is good or bad.
My point is you guys leave and then come back. I've seen it happen. Some have joined and they never really drank the abetalk juice of eternity. We have had our new comers spread us with surprises and it is all ever evolving.
We love you all and we trust your guidance. Personally, the way I see it, there is no need to leave or delete anything. It is all about focus, and this is the very teaching that brought us all together here in the first place, is it not?
I don't see why you are arguing with each other so much, I don't see why bother trying to convince anyone, even though here I come with my own word, of course.
I see grown ups fighting like children and I don't see the point. Nevertheless I know that you are what this family is made of, and what family doesn't have it's bad days? what person doesn't have bad days?
I would love for you guys to focus on what gives you joy and relief.
I know sometimes relief is found through the path of negative emotion.
Just wanted to say I am sorry you guys are feeling this place is not for you anymore, sorry you are finding the contrast a reason to leave.
I have seen my parents get divorced, and very little has changed deep inside.
I just want to say:
stay and work with it.
Stay and learn how to focus.
Stay and tune in with joy.
We would be delighted to watch you grow with us.
Let's befriend the contrast of not getting along.
Let's be a family.