quote for today=confused, let's talk

[sara]

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[Mariposa]

loooooooooooool NANCY!!! omg, you are so adorable, I wouldn't have said it so well myself, these are my very same questions!! XD

So my dream of my ideal partner is flawed????????????

cuz I thought he would have no opposites ????????????
Could opposites come in the form of another person outside ??? rather than in the form of your love???

lol no, I think they have to come in the form of out love... so that we practice unconditional love....

this makes me so sad...

Yes, Nancy, our dream is flawed :(

[Pina Colada]

Nancy Lou and Maris:

I know you two are indeed,perfect women without flaws...But ladies...Cut the guys some slack...They are only humans...:heart:

[Bodhi]

Hi Nancy-Lou,

Accept them both as they are and watch what happens. In the meantime, you will naturally conclude what you prefer and why, and it will feel great.

Trust me. Selective sifting happens naturally, whether you do it consciously or not. We humans are masteries of nature, just like everything that happens and everything that exists.

Let yourself see the best in A and B, and know that sooner or later you will gravitate naturally toward G.

[MErlin]

Once you've decided that you want something, the opposite of it is going to be very much a part of your awareness too.
--- Abraham
Excerpted from the workshop in Napa, CA on Thursday, February 27th, 1997 #290
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It makes perfect sense.

If you want something chances are you didn't decide today to have it, this thing you want as been desired for a while and the fact that you don't have it means that you have negative beliefs toward it in your SM.

For example, the positive thoughts on wealth (I want it, it'll be good for me) is fighting with the inner belief (no you don't want it, it's the root of all evil and spiritual people don't need money anyway and if I attract a lot my peers will judge me as non spiritual and might reject me, etc...).

Although this sounds a bit radical, I know many people in spiritual circles who think that way.

It's like trying to implant a rose in a swamp. It might start to work at first but in the long run, the weeds will take over the roses.

Merlin

[cigi]

Hi Nancy-Lou,

Accept them both as they are and watch what happens. In the meantime, you will naturally conclude what you prefer and why, and it will feel great.

Trust me. Selective sifting happens naturally, whether you do it consciously or not. We humans are masteries of nature, just like everything that happens and everything that exists.

Let yourself see the best in A and B, and know that sooner or later you will gravitate naturally toward G.


What she said! :facelol:

Now I don't have to post. Thanks Tasha!:love:

[sara]

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[sara]

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[cigi]

Ok Nancy-Lou, let's play the *what if* game....

What if you started to understand & BELIEVE you are a powerful creator?
What if by your understanding, you KNEW that G was already a done deal?
What if that KNOWLEDGE let you off the hook?
What if your being off the hook let HIM off the hook?
What if by letting EVERYONE off the hook, you could relax?
What if this new-found relaxation allowed you to be more centered in the NOW?
What if being in the now allowed you to simply ENJOY your interactions with any date-worthy guy?
What if your life became so full of fun & relaxation, that G turned up right under your nose in a way that seemed so obvious that you couldn't understand why you didn't just DROP those oars years ago?

All is well & getting weller. You can't stop what you've ALREADY created.

What if?....:heart:

[sara]

How wise and loving and healing you are CIGI...

[TIFF1]

OK so I don't p[ost hrere much. Sorry but I don't get that you are being self-honest with this Bright. Maybe you are I just don't know. I think Abe's is right because pos & neg must ballance. Peeps can have it pos or neg for a while either way then teh opposite must show up. Thats just comon sense physics. Up down left right hot cold balance contrast. Keep going one direction long enough it stops & th eopposite muct catch up to the same level & degree.

But I asked AZZ about what I was thinking this weekend because I am wondering about the same thing. He thinks that everyone we meet is a part of ourself in some way. Some are more that others, and what they say or do. Lots of guys hit on me to the point it is annoying. It takes a lot for anyone to stand out from the crowd. They all blend in to one meatball animal saying "you want some dick?" Like, out loud they say, can I hold that for you? (you want soem dick?) Can I buy you a drink? (want some dick?) What's your name? (want some dick?) So I asked how do I know the sharks from the dolphins? Azz said I don't know youi want some dick?

So it's the self-honest. But anyway he says that parts of what we want are scattered all around us. If we say "Yes!" to the parts we want they eventually group together and form a whole manifesting. Like a thing, a situation, or a personality, or a person that has the qualities we have that "Yes!" feeling about. So that is what Im thinking. And the catch is that or can be that we want what is not good for us but our soul knows what is best. And that our soul can overide or protect us from what we think we want because what we think we want can be from an influence, like a commercial ad campain, or a picture, or family and freinds, a teacher guru or whatever if it's not in our best interest and, and that of everyone. That makes sense to me so I am just picking out what I ;like that feels "Yes!" Also that life is like a bowl of marbles swirling around they are all jsut gray. But stop & look at each one is unique. Pick out the parts adn hold them that I like kind of thing.

Im not looking for a life partner or a string of guys eihter. I don't give a shit what people think of me. I know who and what I am and I love me and that I am more than enoiugh. I love me. I have my life as it is and i am in with love, I am love as a human being. So that's what I think abpuit that.

[sara]

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[TIFF1]

Thankyou Bright, you're very kind adn warm. AZZ is helping his xwife in her buisness fo rthe holidays cause she needs it, doing his business and ground work for a new one and making time to enjoy life, help others & study. The little posting he does in on Matrix E. I don't like post much cause it's hard to type an I don't have all the tmie either. You guys are great tho. Thanks!

[MErlin]

So I asked how do I know the sharks from the dolphins? Azz said I don't know you want some dick?

Yeah I know what you mean Tiff, AZZ came on to me the same way :rolleyes:

Aaah AZZ you little perv, stop bugging Tiff or she'll twist your head like she did to "The Doc".

Ok jokes asides, so you want some dick or not? :shock: huh no..that's not what I wanted to say to you... just wanted to say thanks to let us know how's our friend AZZ doing. It's been a long time since we saw him.

Cheers,


Merlin

What is my SM?
I think that you are speaking about our beliefs in our unconcious / subconcious ??

Hi BLL,

SM could stand for either Subconscious Mind or Sado/Maso but after studying the Subconscious Mind for 20+ years, I think they mean the same thing. XD

Merlin

[TIFF1]

Merlin rofl:spin::kiss3:

[MErlin]

Merlin rofl:spin::kiss3:

:facelol:

Your "want some dick" story reminded me of my story on the difference between the sexual instincts of the female and male lions?

Want to hear it?

Merlin

[sara]

SM could stand for either Subconscious Mind or Sado/Maso but after studying the Subconscious Mind for 20+ years, I think they mean the same thing. XD
Merlin

Hhahhahaaaaaaaaaaaaaa:rolleyes: :facelol: :o :facelol: :shock: :heart::joylick::heart: