Kameroon
Thu Sep 03 2009, 9:00pm
Hi!
I wanted to ask if Abraham says something about this topic. I have been seeking for it but I haven't found. Can someone post it if there is anything?
Well .... what happened is that.. my friend who was very young at the time had find out she was pregnant and she ran into me in the hallway.
She told me that and as I knew her circumstances were really difficult to raise a baby in I asked her what will she do? And she said she will keep it, and I said do you really want this, do you feel it inside that is the right thing? And she said Yes, and than I said alright. Than that is it, no abortion than, but I said it in a way like abortion is a solution. And now I am feeling guilty.
After 2 months she called me and she said she would have probably lost her mind if she kept the baby. And so she did abort.
Now I feel guilty for some reason. Like if i suggested to kill the baby.
But I see it like this, if he was never born, than he never really was here. And I would see him probably pick another family to be born into.
What are your thoughts on this.. I will talk tomorrow to her about this... I just want to know this wasn't something she decided because I said it.. oh my. If you were to ask me again I would totally support her because now she would have a joy and a motivation to live and do better which.... kinda seems she doesn't because right after that she did some outrageous things which lead her to really heartbreaking experiences. Well, for me heartbreaking because she is my friend and I want the best for her. And I am still sure she will do good because she is awesome, I just feel there is something about her.
But however.... can you give me your opinions on this?
Thank you
I wanted to ask if Abraham says something about this topic. I have been seeking for it but I haven't found. Can someone post it if there is anything?
Well .... what happened is that.. my friend who was very young at the time had find out she was pregnant and she ran into me in the hallway.
She told me that and as I knew her circumstances were really difficult to raise a baby in I asked her what will she do? And she said she will keep it, and I said do you really want this, do you feel it inside that is the right thing? And she said Yes, and than I said alright. Than that is it, no abortion than, but I said it in a way like abortion is a solution. And now I am feeling guilty.
After 2 months she called me and she said she would have probably lost her mind if she kept the baby. And so she did abort.
Now I feel guilty for some reason. Like if i suggested to kill the baby.
But I see it like this, if he was never born, than he never really was here. And I would see him probably pick another family to be born into.
What are your thoughts on this.. I will talk tomorrow to her about this... I just want to know this wasn't something she decided because I said it.. oh my. If you were to ask me again I would totally support her because now she would have a joy and a motivation to live and do better which.... kinda seems she doesn't because right after that she did some outrageous things which lead her to really heartbreaking experiences. Well, for me heartbreaking because she is my friend and I want the best for her. And I am still sure she will do good because she is awesome, I just feel there is something about her.
But however.... can you give me your opinions on this?
Thank you