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Pina Colada
Thu Aug 20 2009, 9:38am
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Tai
Thu Aug 20 2009, 10:31am
I can understand this feels shitty. And you know what, things ARE gonna get better.
But in order to let those better things come to you, you gotta make peace with where you are now. And how can you do that? For some people it helps to find positive aspects about their current reality, for me that sometimes feels like too much work, especially when I'm in a situation I just don't want.
So, something I do, is just stop thinking and start feeling. Go to your solar plexus, and feel what's happening there. You probably notice some 'negative' emotions, but just observe them and let them go. Then feel how it would feel when you would be happy. How would it feel now? What sensations would you experience? When I do this, I always notice a sort of exciting (not sexually) feeling in my solar plexus, and a sort of feeling of space. It feels wonderful to dive into that.
This helps me to get more energy, so that I can stand better in my current reality. I did this a few times during contrast at work, and the next days (every time) situations just worked out so well. And I didn't have to work on beliefs or anything (something that I don't always like to do) it just went better automatically.
You experience is based on your own beliefs. It is a mirror, you can use it to clear things up for you. Is there a reason the feeling of guilt towards your boss when you would quit is coming up now? Is there a reason you feel you can't do what you want, because of obligations? Is there a reason you feel your mom and dad won't understand you? Are these feelings familiar to you? find out what you want to say to yourself with this situation.
Oh, and if that all doesn't work out, remember what I said. We still need someone at my job hihi :grin:
Love ya sis :heart:
Deva
Thu Aug 20 2009, 10:58am
I wanna break free...Wake me up when people don't have to struggle to live on a planet they were born on,and when we won't have to prove our worthiness thru hard work.
Hey Love, what an excellent thread, I really felt where you are coming from!
16 hours a day is way to much IMO, right now i have a part time job thats between 2-4-8 hours.. i rotate.. just keep looking honey. Say you want something part time next time. I currently help out the owner of a local bookstore. The store is open from 9 am to 7pm and i go in the mornings to open up usually until lunchtime but sometimes into the afternoon. I really love it, i can sit and read all i want and its super casual! I didnt even have to take in a resume!
The place literally found me. I'd quit my job at the resturant a few months back because i felt i was working too hard and it was too much drama there. For a few months I scrunted (made do with little or no money). I started feeling inspired to cook & clean so i alway have food and read and play on the computer.. then i started feeling the urge to check out book places, I thought about the national library and a few commercial bookstores but was not motivated to take action yet. Then one day I was driving through St James on my way home and I noticed a small place called 'The readers bookshop'. I decided to stop by and met a lovely girl. Its a beautiful place with raw wooden shelves and comfortable chairs to sit in, wireless access and coffee. I asked her if her boss needed anymore help she said 'I dont think so but you should come back later and talk to him'. So i walked accross to the mall (which is just 3 mins walk from the store) and fooled around till it was time to go back. When i went back the guy was there- he's so nice! He said he didnt need any help but he took my number anyways. I was a little bit dissapointed but i decided to focus more on cooking for the family. A month later he called me - right before I was leaving to go on the Alaskan cruise. He said the girl who was working for him left and he needed me as soon as I could start.. its been really good so far and he's laid back. I can wear jeans & surf the net and read.. plus i like being in there by myself.. I'm learning how to run a bookstore!
Are there any places you visit that you get good vibes from, or you just love?
Send in resumes there or go in and ask the manager if they have jobs available. They may not right away but people are always walking out of jobs so you never know
You are on the right path, you know what you want.. just keep going for it
I have found that listening to others timetables dont work, sometimes a lot of time will pass while the universe readies you and the situation.
Working can be fun.. for me its a balance. I love cooking so i want days off that i can cook & clean. My dad doesnt mind paying for food and whatever i make is mine to spend
How is it going financially? Thats the thing.. a little extra money is always beneficially but i agree that its not a good feeling when you think 'i have to be someones slave for this'.. lets evolve beyond that - HEAR HEAR! :grin:
Gina
Thu Aug 20 2009, 11:17am
I wanna break free...After a really looooooooong nap.Centuries long nap.Wake me up when people don't have to struggle to live on a planet they were born on,and when we won't have to prove our worthiness thru hard work.
Hey Love, what an excellent thread, I really felt where you are coming from!
Wow, me too.
Shari gave you excellent advice, and I would echo her thoughts. Everyone did, really.
I don't have advice for you, I just have this :grouphug::hug::kiss4::kiss1::heart::lasso:
Mariposa
Thu Aug 20 2009, 11:25am
oh, honey, sweetness!
I wanna break free...After a really looooooooong nap. Centuries long nap. Wake me up when people don't have to struggle to live on a planet they were born on, and when we won't have to prove our worthiness thru hard work.
oh, I so get what you mean! me too! (except I don't like naps that much, I slept all weekend and it got kinda depressing, bored the hell outta me, I just wanted to go outside and run till my legs come off after! :))
But, again, I agree with Alex. I think for peeps like us who are starting our lives, the ''grown up phase'', where we just can't fool around for that much longer... we have NO choice but to GET HAPPY!! You could read Izzy's post again, she was so right, I mean, it looks like being an adult fucking bLOWS, but if we really have no choice, then we MUST GET HAPPY. And then, who knows, maybe after we get used to the job thing, it's not so bad, and we always have some free time and fun to have.. :rolleyes:
When I was working as a cashier, I remember doing this presence thing. I know you're not such a huge fan of Eckhart Tolle, but when you become present with all of your senses, like he suggests, you just feel so free and so fresh. It totally works, only it can be hard to keep it up. Cuz you'll always go back to your mind, it always wants to fuck you up. When I started trying this new thing, being the witness of your mind and your emotions/feelings/reactions to events, I met the Devil. The so called Devil that all religions love to talk about, it's in US, it's the MIND! It fucks up our entire lives! When we reach as much awareness as we can, we just witness our own reactions to what happens, we know true freedom from the mind. But it is so fucking hard, cuz the stupid mind and the stupid stories, and the stupid victim state (which Izzy was talking about) it haunts us! But it's not who we are! All that load of crap we think and feel, is all bananas! :facelol: It's bullshit! shananigans! FUCK IT!
What Tai said is also a really good thing for you to try, sweetie, feel those emotions. But then find your way back to your vortex. For me, the vortex is not about thoughts and feelings, for me, what I have felt as a vortex, has been my own pure conection to Source, it's not a thought, it's not an emotion, I think it's awareness of your Inner Being right where you are right now. I remember so well saying ''thank you'' whenever my Inner Being knocked the back door of my mind, at work. All the stories of your mind... personally, I consider them, the Devil. lol I know it sounds kinda harsh, but, The Devil wants to destroy you, and it's your own mind, this pain, this suffering, this constant complaining, this fucking negativity! I really feel it like a demon inside, cuz it doesn't let you fucking live! It's like a fucking disease, Piña, we are MORE THAN ALL OF THIS!!!
Whatever you decide, I tell you: feel your own body every single moment. Whatever you are doing, do it fully present. Be exactly right there with all that you are. Give it a try. What you touch, feel it completely. Inhabit your body, let your whole spirit fill the room, and be a witness, use all of your senses, feel the very beat of your heart, breathe, and just see what happens...
You are SO LOVED!! Yes, there probably is a much better place for you, but it's not available just yet, you are where you are. Make the BEST of it!! Who knows, if they see you all beautiful and smiling, the hottest guy might ask you out, you can make friends, or, like my parents always tell me, if they see you work well, somebody else will meet you and offer you something better, becaus they just like the way you talk to customers, you are such a delight to be around! Smile, baby! From your heart!
Or... ya know... just quit... :p but you'll probably do good in taking this opportunity to learn how to love what Is.. cuz what Is... stays there... ya wanna learn to love it anyway... :p
Mariposa
Thu Aug 20 2009, 11:41am
Thanx Alex! ^^
How can someone complain with so much beauty all around?
One complains when one is blinded and doesn't SEE the beauty. When you finally can SEE IT... you don't complain, how could you? Exactly Alex!
Piñu, I love you girl!
And yes, I met the Devil! Tricky bastard! :joylick:
Have you all met yours? Cuz it's important to look at its very face, and go...
:smart:
Deva
Thu Aug 20 2009, 1:53pm
Great post Mariposa, you spoke to my heart. This presence thing that Tolle and so many other Advaita teachers speak about is what helps me yes. When my mind begins to complain.. its too long, its too hard, i cant do it. I say - well its just a thought, lets see if its true, most of the time i can keep taking the action and there is no resitance in my body. Its not even tired. Its just my mind gets bored doing one thing for long periods and i have to let it complain but not let it dictate to me what i do. I hear it & i ignore it.
Its true.. 'this is too hard' is just a thought. On the other hand, if this place is not a vibrational match to you and to where you are headed in life you will never feel comfortable there in which case even if you make peace with it. You will find yourself motivated to leave eventually.
Just go with the flow of things my darling
I love you :heart::hug::heart:
Pina Colada
Thu Aug 20 2009, 2:38pm
Guys,I'm overwhelmed and powerless now.Imma wallow a bit in that.
You have so many good advices mah party peeps.:heart::heart::heart:
Deva,thank you so much for sharing your beautiful story...:heart:
Mariposa
Thu Aug 20 2009, 3:05pm
Deva! Thanx, I swear I never saw your post this morning! It's like it wasn't there when I decided to post my reply! :o
I loved your story!! How cool is that? ^^ Congratulations on your creation, babe! It sounds so good, I'd love to work in a bookstore myself, and going around the city looking for places that resonate with me sounds like such a great idea! You are amazing Deva woman! Thanks for this!! I could SOO use this too!
:heart::heart::heart::heart:
And Adal!! You are the sweetest! Source Glasses and Pollyanna Pills ¡qué divino! I loved what you said about cooking with love too! I started experiencing in the cooking are very recently, and I have found it to be really soothing as well, when you put your love into it, it's great! You know what I did today? Well, I try not to eat meat, kinda veggy, but my dad suggested chicken so I made it, and I decided to, instead of using a knife, to cut it with my hands! It felt like I gave the meat a lil massage! :p Cooking can be an opportunity to express love, I agree Adal Bello!
:heart::heart::heart::heart:
Mariposa
Thu Aug 20 2009, 3:24pm
Skibbs! ^^ How you doin?
I see what you mean... and it's true... but we couldn't help ourselves! I mean... my first reaction to Piña's post was... MEEE TOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!! but does that really help?? If I told Piña ''yes, we will wake you up when the world is brighter and you don't ever have to work'' what do you think?
When I ranted about my situation and Izzy TOLD MY ASS OFF! I was like... :shock:
And it was damn refreshin!
But I guess it would be cool to have a TOILET ROOM! :grin: Just for the human waste! :p although, what do you mean? like no1 should read it? or.. they should complain with us? :facelol:
Pina Colada
Thu Aug 20 2009, 3:35pm
Guys,guys,you overthink all this.Relax.Allow.Have fun,Life is good.XD
AttractionFactor
Thu Aug 20 2009, 3:40pm
Oh Flippity Floppity!
Nightprincessa
Thu Aug 20 2009, 3:50pm
Maybe the name of the forum should be "Let it flow out" :grin:
Gina
Thu Aug 20 2009, 9:19pm
Oh Flippity Floppity!
rofl:joylick::hilarious::joylick:rofl
Pina Colada
Fri Aug 21 2009, 12:37am
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fresh beginnings
Fri Aug 21 2009, 2:40am
Boss is sucha nice man,and didn't deserve this bitchy attitude
Yes he did deserve this bitchy attitude! Good for you! If he were really a "nice" man he would have structured a work environment for you where you felt comfortable. Ineffective nincompoop who can't retain a hardworking talented employee.
Curse him as much as you want, get it out of your system and your vibration and watch as a new boss and a new job float into your life effortlessly -- One where you feel happy and one where the job taps into the energy of your soul.
Nightprincessa
Fri Aug 21 2009, 3:16am
Piña, hun, I am so happy you quit cuz I could feel your frustration and pain, and nothing is worth you being miserable. Your boss will be ok, so don't be concerned about him and take care of you first. He will find someone else for the position because everything is always working in your favor, but also for the good of all involved (even if we don't see it yet.) ^^
All is well and you will find what you want soon enough, just feel the relief of not having to go work at that place anymore and also appreciation for it because it gave you clarity as to what you do desire.
Don't feel guilty about quitting cuz your happiness always comes first. :heart:
Tai
Fri Aug 21 2009, 4:30am
Good you followed your guidance Kristina :heart:
I hope you can enjoy the relief now, and not only think about your former boss. Because, how standard-Abe it may sound, he WAS a vibration match to this in some way. And you did nothing wrong, you did what felt best for you!
I know you're gonna find something better :heart:
fresh beginnings
Fri Aug 21 2009, 6:14am
[quote=11:33;63038]Quitters never win, and winners never quit.
They (winners) merely "Ascend" to a higher plane of working.
11:33 : I struggle with this question in my own context.
There has to be a point when one quits right?
I mean if one is taking crap in a job -- then one has to wonder
1. If one is taking crap for the sake of taking crap or
2. If one is taking crap in the hope of a promotion or some better situation hopefully.
If signs of # 2 are nowhere on the horizon then what to do? To quit or to "stick it out" even if one perceives a dead-end ?
asjairok
Fri Aug 21 2009, 6:45am
Alex go and hang out with Key !
fresh beginnings
Fri Aug 21 2009, 7:08am
Mr Skubber!!!
I love you. :heart::heart::heart::heart::heart:
I had a major "I ruined it" vibe in my system from losing my last job. I think this brilliant post of yours chased away a large part of it.
Thank you.
fresh beginnings
Fri Aug 21 2009, 7:36am
[quote=11:33;63051]Take crap? No, don't do that. How can you take crap? Why would you create crap? Only victims take crap. Creators don't ever even SEE crap. They don't notice it. It is totlaly out of their perceptions.
11:33 -- I understand what you are saying. To say "I am in a crappy situation" is most definitely a victim vibe. Yes.
How does the rest of the thought process work ? Which is the direction of flow and thinking?
1. Is it that if one is a creator then one sees the crappy situation as not crappy?
i.e. does the creator vibe "make crap pretty?" (for want of better vocabulary in my kitty)
or
2. Is it that if one is a creator, then one will NEVER have a crappy situation to begin with? i.e .... will it always be 'lollipops and roses' to quote patriciab from the other forum?
fresh beginnings
Fri Aug 21 2009, 7:54am
It is all awesome and blessing me"
:drum::drum::drum::drum::drum::drum::drum::drum::d rum::drum::drum::drum::drum::drum::drum::drum::dru m:.
My new mantra from now on. Will repeat it several times a day. Thank you 11:33.
I "knew" this -- about each situation having wanted and unwanted and it being a choice as to where I wanted to focus on.....but somehow this hit me in another new way right now.
It's such a slow process to get out of old modes of thinking.
Now, my next question to you, is -- does this theory also work with the concept of "lack" ?
i.e. Is the lack in my life in some areas of my life also blessing me?
If so how?
fresh beginnings
Fri Aug 21 2009, 8:05am
Yes. That which you imagine to be "lack" in your life is blessing you.
HOW ? HOW ? HOW? HOW? THIS IS THE ONE QUESTION AROUND WHICH THE REST OF MY LIFE FROM THIS POINT HINGES.
HOW IS THE LACK IN MY LIFE BLESSING ME
(and not from the abe perspective that it has put abundance in my vortex through rockets of desire that I have launched).... the fact that the abundance in my vortex is fine....
I need to know from a practical perspective so that I can become a vibrational match to the abundance in my vortex.
HOW IS THE LACK IN MY LIFE BLESSING ME?
Someone please help me so that I can get past this mental hurdle.
fresh beginnings
Fri Aug 21 2009, 8:12am
Once you decide that it MUST be blessing you, then you will see how.
:facelol::facelol::facelol::facelol::facelol::face lol::facelol::facelol::facelol::facelol::facelol:: facelol::facelol::facelol::facelol::facelol::facel ol::facelol::facelol::facelol::facelol::facelol::f acelol::facelol::facelol::facelol::facelol::facelo l::facelol::facelol::facelol::facelol:.
Yes, it is just as simple as that isn't it? Ha ha.
There is no lack in your life. You seem pretty convinced of it though. So drop that. Just drop it. And whenever you think of anything or see anything, just say, "I am so grateful this is blessing me so much", and really mean it..
I need to think this through ...but I am on the verge of some sort of breakthrough. I can feel it.
Nightprincessa
Fri Aug 21 2009, 4:27pm
I believe it is all about choices - decisions. Whatever you decide is the right course of action for only you know how you feel and where you're at.
The thing to do is, once you make a decision, to feel good about it and the inspiration will come for what the next step is. I can say that, at least in my experience, life takes care of life and I have always been take care of (and no, I don't live with relatives who are supporting me) when I have made a firm decision and feel good about it. Things just pop out of nowhere, even if it happens at the last minute - but they DO happen and I continue being supported by all that is - by all that I AM.
This is just my perception, but it may resonate with any of you. :heart:
fresh beginnings
Sat Aug 22 2009, 7:42am
This way, dear one.
Leah, you poured source all over me with this. Thank you for the affectionately pointing out the direction :kiss5:
fresh beginnings
Sat Aug 22 2009, 8:28am
So, I've been thinking -- For the FIRST TIME in my life, ever, I am really really happy now.
I am enjoying my work, it is a self-governing position so I'm not dependent on others to reach my results etc. I am learning a lot. I have good relationships with people. I have peace of mind.
I spent the last year unemployed and learning the teachings of abraham. And that was really helpful too (though I was always stressed about not having a job, luckily I had a support system in terms of my parents)...
So I can say that I have created the exact kind of work and environment in my NOW MOMENT that I always wanted [for now atleast, till I stabilize and get into the vibration of working again, and get into more alignment with myself ] and I am thrilled to have manifested all of this.
So IN MY NOW MOMENT -- I have lots of abundance. I am thrilled. :joylick::joylick:
I actually believe in my ability to be a powerful creator.
The "lack" I keep complaining about is debt from past bad decisions and losses made in my pre-abraham/lack of alignment days. [Which includes the first 35 years of my life].
I have a mountain of debt, some of which my parents had to pay off and I feel really bad about this .... and other still sitting on my head, yet to be paid off.
Are there ways to pivot on this? This is what keeps me out of the vortex.
I know that the universe has a million ways -- and i picture winning the lottery, or the loans getting cancelled etc. etc. -- but I need to shrug off the feeling of lack.
My old job (which I got fired from last year) paid me six times higher than the current one.
11:11 (in a conversation on the abe forum) told me clearly to disaggregate work and income, because if one is a vibrational match to money, the other six times can come through any source, and not necessarily as a salary.
I have taken his sage advice and it really helps me in terms of respecting my job and valuing it as work -- and appreciating the one time salary as well that I am paid for it -- because it is work that i would have done for free really if i had the luxury.
So this is my "lack".
How do i wrap my mind around "the debt in my life is blessing me?"
Because I dont feel that it is a blessing really. If I could somehow work through this, then I can shrug off my vibration of lack and be a vibrational match to money.
Thank you for any comments.
FB
fresh beginnings
Sat Aug 22 2009, 8:53am
11:33 -- I have been thinking so hard that I have a migraine trying to figure out how the debt is a blessing.
Do you have any ideas to start me off? I'm at a complete loss.
fresh beginnings
Sat Aug 22 2009, 8:57am
No you would be doing me a big service. In order for me to do this for the rest of my life, I need to have someone hold me by the hand and lead me through this ONE exercise.
I'm pretty quick on the uptake though. So it wont take a lot of prodding.
Please?
ShelleP
Sat Aug 22 2009, 12:31pm
I need to know from a practical perspective so that I can become a vibrational match to the abundance in my vortex.
HOW IS THE LACK IN MY LIFE BLESSING ME?
Someone please help me so that I can get past this mental hurdle.
FB, I see noticing the "lack" in something as noticing the contrast, the variety, that from which we find what IS wanted. That's the blessing - defining what is wanted and moving in that direction. If you can just notice it, "hmmmm, not what I want" and turn back towards the other side, the abundance side of things and stop trying to figure out why it's there you can release it and move towards what is wanted. If you feel you have to keep trying to figure it out, it's just keeping it in your experience.
I love chocolate ice cream. At dinner last night the dessert was served with vanilla. I tasted it, "hmmmm, it's ok but I would rather have chocolate." Now I can either obsess about the lack of chocolate ice cream all day today, complain about it, fret about it, tell everyone I run into about that vanilla ice cream - I don't like vanilla, why was it there?? Maybe I'll never find chocolate again - do you think that I'm resigned to a life of vanilla ice cream? Maybe now that I've been served vanilla ice cream, the waiter, the U., all that is is going to only serve me vanilla ice cream for the rest of my life and I'll never find chocolate ice cream again. Oh no, how did I get myself in this spot? This is not what I wanted!! This will ruin everything!
Or I can just take it as a reminder that I really do prefer chocolate and remember that today I'll look for chocolate ice cream in my experience. Thank you vanilla for reminding me how much I like chocolate!
Yesterday, I wasn't even thinking about ice cream, but now I can taste the creamy yummy chocolate-ness, mmmmmm, it's going to be so yummy. Can't wait for the chocolate ice cream...wow, had forgotten how much I love chocolate ice cream...
Whether vanilla ice cream or a mountain of debt or bad traffic or whatever you have noticed that you don't want - it is what it is - at the time it is happening you're somehow aligned to it and attracting it into your experience. You don't need to know how or why, just stop talking about it and notice instead the blessing of knowing what you DO want from the experience and focus there - chocolate ice cream, plenty of money to do whatever you want to do, an easy way to drive where you want to be with free flowing light traffic...you don't leave your hand on the hot stove wondering how you managed to be so stupid to grab the burner and wondering how that is going to make your life better in the long run - just let go!
:heart:
fresh beginnings
Sun Aug 23 2009, 11:51am
Hi shelle:
Are you 'believe' from the abe forum? She is also a shelle? I am formerly secondchances :grin:. Now fresh beginnings.
Thanks for stopping by on this thread. Its a little hard to say "well I dont like debt...so let me think about abundance"...when I am looking at a blank canvas in front of me.
But today I kept repeating "the debt in my life is blessing me".... and I just kept repeating that.
Then all of a sudden I read a marianne williamson quote on her twitter page and she says (paraphrased) "negative denial is denying the problem exists. Positive denial is denying the power of the problem over you"
And somehow that made me feel a whole lot better and gave me somewhat of a reframe.
So, today I am at a point where I just see the debt as simply an old bag/sack of potatoes sitting in a corner. IT EXISTS BUT IT DOES NOT HAVE ANY POWER OVER ME ANY MORE.
How cool is that ? I have disaggregated my power from the problem.
Until today, both were intertwined. My problem held me in a vibration of powerlessness.
Now my debt is just a sack of potatoes without the meaning I attached to it.
I'll keep repeating "the debt is blessing me" for the rest of my life and see how it plays out and what other insights I attract to my thought processes.
fresh beginnings
Mon Aug 24 2009, 12:15am
Hi Parenthesis :wave: . Yes ofcourse I remember you...your name is Alex. You are the one who prompted Jody to find out in a dictionary what a "craw" was because you said something was stuck in your vibrational craw. :facelol::facelol::facelol:. I remember you. I thought that was hilarious.
Yes, it is fun to work through these on my own. I also think that this is part of "my process" and finding MY OWN ALIGNMENT.
One of the reasons I reached this sorry stage in my life is because i used to follow other peoples guidance about what was best for me (parents, employers, well-wishers) and consequently had no self-definition.
Thinking for myself suddenly does not come easy. But yes, it is about an explanation that makes sense to me in MY life based on MY guidance
Pina Colada
Mon Aug 24 2009, 10:10am
Alexus,that is one ispiring story.I just love what you wrote...You have HUUGE balls for following your inspiration and inner nudgings.Thank you for sharing.
Leah,I love what you said too.And Tika::heart:
Mom and dad were mad,calling my an useless lazy bum lol,I cried and all,but was happy I didn't have to work there anymore.
And then,I went out with a cousin of mine.She's 32,lives with her parents,her daugter and her boyfriend in an tiny apartment.And the parents still treat her like she's a 12 year old brat.
Conclusion:Parents are usually idiots.XD
So,now I feel awesome,I see the light again.
Thank you so much my tiny ones.
fresh beginnings
Tue Aug 25 2009, 4:18am
So I've been repeating "The debt in my life is blessing me" over and over and over again.
And then I just became sick of it.
So I changed my mantra last night to "I have NO debt in my life"....
and went to sleep repeating that and this morning, i actually believed it.....
and so i changed my mantra again to
"The abundance in my life is blessing me".
And now i am repeating that over and over again. :joylick::joylick::joylick:
asjairok
Tue Aug 25 2009, 5:21am
So I've been repeating "The debt in my life is blessing me" over and over and over again.
And then I just became sick of it.
So I changed my mantra last night to "I have NO debt in my life"....
and went to sleep repeating that and this morning, i actually believed it.....
and so i changed my mantra again to
"The abundance in my life is blessing me".
And now i am repeating that over and over again. :joylick::joylick::joylick:
that's so positive !
Martian
Tue Aug 25 2009, 6:31am
I'm allowed to bitch and whine? Heaven! I wish I could go somewhere, get a baseball bat and trash a car. I wish I could lose 10 pounds in a day. I wish sexy guys would notice me. I wish sexy guys would think I'm sexy. I wish I could finally start manifesting in my life. Like, anything. I'd been visualizing forever being rich, and I am so overdone and jaded about it, if I received money today, I wouldn't even react to it. Why should getting money a big deal? People receive big money every day on this planet. And they don't jump up and down, it's just another day for them. Eeeeeuuuggggghhhhhhh nursing head in my hands
fresh beginnings
Tue Aug 25 2009, 7:46am
Martian:
Since 11:33 isn't online, I will walk you through the therapy process. :grin:
Repeat after me --
THE EXTRA WEIGHT I AM CARRYING IS A BLESSING IN MY LIFE.
THE FACT THAT SEXY GUYS DONT FIND ME SEXY IS A BLESSING IN MY LIFE
THE BASEBALL BAT I WANT TO TRASH THE CAR WITH IS ABUNDANCE IN MY LIFE....
and so on and so forth.
AND REALLY MEAN IT!!!!!
When you say these things and mean them, then the blessing will be evident to you and you will see manifestations of all sorts of things.
:joylick::joylick::joylick::joylick::joylick::joyl ick::joylick::joylick::joylick::joylick::joylick:: joylick::joylick::joylick:.
Remember: You are a powerful creator. And powerful creators see no crap.
Only victims see crap.
fresh beginnings
Tue Aug 25 2009, 8:27am
Yes Mr. skubber --
But see what happened to me. I kept repeating "my debt is a blessing in my life" to the point that 48 hours I got sick of it and had to find something to pivot and started repeating "my abundance is a blessing"
repeating that became like a detox program where one has to bring it all to the surface and throw it out once and for all.
fresh beginnings
Tue Aug 25 2009, 8:41am
"You may have begun to reduce the size of your desires in the hopes they would come faster, but that just reduces your joy about them. Instead, up the ante! Increase the size of your dream! Ask for something bigger than you have been asking for. And watch the excitement level build up!"
This is fabulous!!!!! :heart::heart::heart::heart::heart:
Dance of Joy
Tue Aug 25 2009, 10:40am
Ah, very nice, Alex. :grin:
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