When the Universe doesn't deliver what you want

[Jen415]

So yesterday I asked my UM to talk to the IB of a friend I have been trying to get in touch with.

Nothing happened. And those friends are on a plane headed back from whence they came.

For some reason, they are vibrating out of my life, and I don't know why. I WANT them there. Why don't they want to be there??

:queen: Jen

[PaulaPereira]

Hi Jen, I hope you are finding relief in this situation for yourself.

I understand that you like these people, but if they did decide they were mad at you and didn't want to talk to you, you should ask yourself why you may have created this? Or even better, ask yourself why it bothers you that they bounced out of your life? It could be to make your friendships with these people even stronger or maybe you are just vibrating so differently that in due time you will create some new friends to deliberately create with you.

And do remember that you are a rad chick and that you are so worthy of making new friendships! :heart:

Paula

[asjairok]

So yesterday I asked my UM to talk to the IB of a friend I have been trying to get in touch with.

Nothing happened. And those friends are on a plane headed back from whence they came.

For some reason, they are vibrating out of my life, and I don't know why. I WANT them there. Why don't they want to be there??

:queen: Jen
But Jen, they are here to give you lesson that you don't need them to feel good. :heart:

[Jen415]

These are all great replies...let me give you some more info to go on.

These folks are friends of our from England that winter here in Florida every year. We've known them for a long time. Over two weeks ago the four of us (my partner Alan and our friends) went to a nearby resort town for a long weekend. We had a great time!

They came back to their home in Florida to prepare to close it for the summer. We hadn't heard from them, so I tried calling their cell from my cell--went to voice mail. I later tried to call them from my office phone (a number they didn't recognize) and my friend answered. She was surprised to hear it was me, but did not talk to me any differently than she normally does.

Any subsequent calls made to them after that were not returned--neither were texts or e-mails. Granted, their cell phone here in the US was not the most reliable thing, nor did they have regular e-mail access. But it is so unusual for them to not be in contact with us at all. I thought sure they would have found a way to contact us, especially since they were scheduled to fly home yesterday.

My partner tries to reassure me that there must be some technical reason they are not in contact right now as opposed to a personal/emotioal reason (as in they are wanting to cut off the relationship with us). I am trying to see it in the positive way he does, but it is so difficult. If someone doesn't communicate with me, my mind automactically goes to its default thought: "They must be pissed off at me!" And, being the peacemaking creature I am, I can't stand the thought of ANYONE being mad at me about anything!!

So, there it is.....I'm reaching for better feeling thoughts that will give me some relief from this.

Thanks everyone....

:queen: Jen

[asjairok]

Yes , but even if you don't want to admit it - they have reason other than that. rofl

[Nightprincessa]

My partner tries to reassure me that there must be some technical reason they are not in contact right now as opposed to a personal/emotioal reason (as in they are wanting to cut off the relationship with us). I am trying to see it in the positive way he does, but it is so difficult. If someone doesn't communicate with me, my mind automactically goes to its default thought: "They must be pissed off at me!" And, being the peacemaking creature I am, I can't stand the thought of ANYONE being mad at me about anything!!


So, there it is.....I'm reaching for better feeling thoughts that will give me some relief from this.

Thanks everyone....

:queen: Jen

Hi Jen :hug:

I'm going through some wonderful contrast right now. At first, my old beliefs were kicking in and making me feel negative emotion, but then I realized it is all me!!!

Address that part of you that needs adjusting... that vibration (what I highlighted in bold)... You see, you're friends are aspects of you, so, find those aspects within you and change the vibration. Change yourself, and everything else will adjust accordingly!

All is well!!! :simple:

Much love for you :heart:

Martika

[Nightprincessa]

I understand that you like these people, but if they did decide they were mad at you and didn't want to talk to you, you should ask yourself why you may have created this? Or even better, ask yourself why it bothers you that they bounced out of your life? It could be to make your friendships with these people even stronger or maybe you are just vibrating so differently that in due time you will create some new friends to deliberately create with you.



Hi Paula :hug:

I love your response, especially the part in bold! By changing the vibration around those aspects that need cleaning, we make our reality even better... thus, things will be great!

Thanks for those words! :loveflag:

Love :heart:

Martika

[honestly]

Because you aren't a match to them anymore. Other people that ARE a match will be appear in your experience. :D :)

Love, Ronald

[Pamela Vicik-Smith]

Hi Jen ~

Who knows what may be happening with your friends, but I bet it has nothing to do with you. It could very well be that the two of them had some sort of big-time spat and your friend is so wrapped up in her problem that she does not even realize she has been ignoring you.

After all, how could anyone not love you? :heart:

[Jen415]

After all, how could anyone not love you? :heart:

True....so true! rofl

:queen: Jen