Wanting Answers

[PaulaPereira]

Hey everyone:)

So this is kind of a sensitive subject for me but i really want to get some new perspective on this. So I live with my parents and my father is an alcoholic, has been my whole life. If i do everything he wants me to, meaning have no freedom, things might be alright. But of course I do not live that way and currently I am living with him and i just would like some suggestions on how to change my whole perspective so that i can stop creating feeling unhappy when I am around him. right now I feel like "Damn it, I wish I had the money to move the fuck out!" I know this is not the right way to approach this.

Thanks peeps :hug:

[PaulaPereira]

I am feeling better, everything is for my benefit, thank you my love for reminding me! I love you so much to honey xoxo...

[Jen415]

Awwwww you sweet kids! Looooooooove is in the airrrrrrrrrrrr!!! :heart: :heart: :heart:

[Cantabile]

Awwwwe! :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:

[Stewart]

Ask and it is given!

You might also keep this in mind to help see your father in a new light: the desire to drink is a desire to connect to Source. Problem is, the person drinking doesn't really understand THAT'S why they're doing it. Same with people who abuse drugs. In doing what they're doing, they are seeking that feeling of connection -- which is momentary for them once they substance abuse because it quickly flips over to the destructive side because the alcohol and/or drugs eventually DISconnect them. So if you can come to view your father as a wonderful soul who is feeling so disconnected and yearns daily to get connected, through alcohol, you can sort of start to relate to him differently. It might not change who he is, but it will help you get to a better feeling place about the situation. Then a whole new series of circumstances will be available to you; you'll find yourself rendezvousing with him when he is sober, or softer, and avoiding the more intoxicated times. You'll be free in a whole new way. Just see him as that beautiful light being he is, knowing that the alcohol is his attempt to connect... and leave it at that. And you focus on what YOU need, and where YOU want to go. And watch the Universe line it up for you.

SSJ