How to focus on what you want

[livingthesecret]

I did experience that the law of attraction works.
I started to use this after my relation ended. For a while I was like brainwashed with this and I could not think of anything else.
I had many help from the Bobo proctor seminar on dvd, because it's very well explained how it works.
then suddenly (after 6 months breakup) things started to work well for me, just like they say, when it starts to come it comes in an abbundance. My business went up and I got a call from my ex, just like all I wanted.
I was so stupid after a while to tell her that I didn't want her to call me anymore. Then I started to doubt again.

And that is what I mean, it's very hard to stay focussed on what you want, that is why the law of attraction doesn't manifest.

The most help I had is from the 11 forgotten laws from Bob Proctor (http://finchance.thelaws.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=ABE). (found here growrichpro.info (http://www.growrichpro.info/)
I know how to but I can't stop having the doubt all the time. Does anyone has advice for this.
About 1-2 weeks before my ex contacted me all went so fine, the fact that she contacted me was great (all what I desired) but since I did the stupid move to ask her to leave me alone all felt down again, even my business.

[Dorothee]

Hi,

I think this feeling indicates big time that in this moment you're just focused on something that your Source isn't focused on. So my tip would be to investigate a bit which thoughts bring forward these responses and then you have a guideline where your view and the view of your broader part are differing.

So if you want to get back on track again (which means if you feel good again and let your broader part guide you to what you want), you job now would be to subsitute these thoughts that don't feel good when you think them through other, better feeling thoughts.

For example: if the thought would be "bummer, everything was so good until I asked XYZ to leave me alone and now I've messed everything up and I will never be happy again", the new, improved thought could be: "Well, everything was okay until that time when I asked XYZ to leave me alone, so maybe it wasn't really a great idea, but it felt really good at that moment, so it can't have been totally wrong, and there's nothing that can't be straightened out again and everything will work out for me in the long run anyway, so I'll let the Universe sort out how this situation can be resolved, I have done what I thought was the best and now I'm open for every development, all is well with me."

These thoughts could feel better than the ones you thought so far, so the knot in your stomach would lessen a bit which would mean that you would allow yourself to let a bit more of the good stuff that is already prepared for you from the Universe in.

For me, it is always helpful, a) to monitor my stomach a bit and if it knots up to ask myself "what am I thinking in this moment that makes my stomach all knotting up?" and b) to conscioulsy telling me "this thought must be bogus since it doesn't feel good, so what could feel a little bit better in this moment?

Love,
Dorothee