When avoiding what IS becomes impossible

[want2bcarefree]

Hi im new here and wanted to post..


on hard days when you feel like theres someone around you that is always raining on your parade how can you k eep up a positive vibe esp when you want to take off running and you feel held back
what is bothering me today is that the energy has to line up first, thats the famous line right? well how do you know when the energy has lined up? why does everything have to manifest over a period of time instead of right away? never did understand that.

[AttractionFactor]

Check out this writing: http://www.abraham-hicks.com/journal.php?eid=1827 on LOA. It answers all your questions.
(And you may need to register, which is free, at Abraham hicks to get to that URL.

Steve

[want2bcarefree]

ok ill check out that link didnt know someone else responded i just edited my post because i felt dumb displaying such negavity like that

[AttractionFactor]

ok ill check out that link didnt know someone else responded i just edited
my post because i felt dumb displaying such negavity like that

You're doing fine. You're just going through some trouble in life and seem stuck. Remember LOA is based on "you get what you concentrate upon." Your focus is on the problem and it seems to be stuck there. But you can shift how you react to the problem by finding a way to feel better one feeling of relief at a time.

I think the important thing is to understand how LOA is reacting to the way you feel. Here is a quote from that article that I think could shed some light on what you're feeling:

" ...
The more you come to understand the power of the Law of Attraction the more interest you will have in deliberately directing your thoughts—for you get what you think about, whether you want it, or not.

Without exception, that which you give thought to is that which you begin to invite into your experience. When you think a little thought of something that you want, through the Law of Attraction, that thought grows larger and larger, and more, and more powerful. When you think a thought of something you do not want, the Law of Attraction draws unto it, and it grows larger and larger, also. And so, the larger it grows, the more power it draws unto it, and then the more certain you are to receive the experience.
When you see something you would like to experience and you say, “Yes, I would like to have that,” through your attention to it you invite it into your experience. However, when you see something that you do not want to experience and you shout, “No, no, I do not want that!” through your attention to it you invite it into your experience. In this attraction-based Universe, there is no such thing as exclusion. Your attention to it includes it in your vibration, and if you hold it in your attention or awareness long enough, the Law of Attraction will bring it into your experience, for there is no such thing as “No”. To clarify, when you look at something and shout, “No, I don’t want to experience that; go away!” then what you are actually doing is calling it into your experience, for there is no such thing as “No” in an attraction-based Universe. Your attention to it says, “Yes, come to me this thing I do not want!”

LOA from AIIG.

[want2bcarefree]

Attractionfactor, I know of Abes teachings pretty well at least know what you said. I know im not supposed to focus on things but how can a person be perfect every day? when something inside of you says i want to get out now i cant wait anymore, thats hard to beat.

[Bodhi]

You see yourself as flawed and needing a cleaning. We see you as perfect and only needing the awareness that you are perfect!
- Abraham-Hicks –

I wanted to start with this beautiful quote before welcoming you - WELCOME oh mighty perfect being :biggrin: ---- I'm serious ----- because the power that your thoughts or our thoughts have is hard to imagine.

Sometimes we see it manifest right away, and sometimes not. In any case, it's all about enjoying the life force flowing through you as you are flowing towards what you want.

Here's another Abe quote that might help (found it here: http://www.theabeforum.com/forum6/5304.html)

Your Point of Attraction
If you're feeling unworthy, you can work day and night, night and day, every day, and yet not allow the very things that you want to flow, because your vibration is not allowing it, and the Universe cannot buck your current. How you're feeling is everything. So if we were standing in your physical shoes, we would let the contrast naturally produce the desire, for it will. And when we feel a desire within us, we would look at it, we would recognize the weirdness of it, we would recognize how unfamiliar it feels, and then we would do what is our work: "I will do the work that I have been born to do: My work is to take that new desire and play with it in my mind's eye, until it feels familiar, until it feels like the manifestation of it is the next logical step." The goal must exist to summon the Energy, but the goal can't matter that much -- or it stops the Energy. Let us bring this to a place that if you get this, you will have quantum leaped into a new place of deliberate attraction: Most everybody stands here, dissatisfied to some degree, longing to be over there. But the whole point of that point of attention to over there is not to get over there. The whole point of the goal or the desire is that the desire summons Life Force through you. That's why you're always wanting another goal, another goal, another goal. That's why we say you will never get it done. So, "Why do I want that?" It's an interesting thing, isn't it? The goal must exist to summon the Energy, but the goal can't matter that much, or it stops the Energy.
You're wanting the goal for the sake of the Energy that will flow through you, not for the sake of the manifestation.

A woman, one day, said, "Abraham, I don't think you care if my lover ever comes to me. I think you want me to envision him so clearly that in my mind's eye, he is real -- so real, that it doesn't matter that he's not really there." And we said, that's exactly right. We know when she feels him in that way, the pain will be gone from her, and the Life Force will flow through her, and all of her goals will be achieved. And we also know, then he must come. But it is not about him coming. It is about him being a goal that is reason for her to focus, that causes Life Force to flow through her. It is about the Life Force flowing through her.

We are delighted that you have unfulfilled goals, because as long as you have desire, Life Force is still flowing through you. From our Nonphysical perspective, we see the unfulfilled goal as the constant summoning of life. You say, "We want fulfilled goals!" And we say, Your goals will all be fulfilled when you get over being so unhappy that they're not fulfilled -- when you start being satisfied in the unfulfillment!
-Abraham-

Natasha :heart:

[want2bcarefree]

Hello CareFreeOne,

on hard days when you feel like there's someone around you that is always raining on your parade how can you keep up a positive vibe

This is such a good question.

The answer is mind bogglingly simple. Choose to be happy.

But since that might not cut it, let me explain further :)

You have the power in you to choose to believe whatever you want. For some reason right now based on what you said you choose to believe that other people have ANY influence on your happiness. To be frank no one is raining on your parade but you. It is likely that you don't have the confidence in yourself to be YOU in all situations. So you make a dis-empowered excuse of: THEY are doing something to me. It is dis-empowered because you gave your power over to someone else! You are the sole creator of your life. Choose wisely :)

There is nothing to keep up, because all is well, and so all stays "up" naturally :)

Think this over, let it simmer.

You're doing fine :)

All the Best,


I dont want to start a fight here but i get tired of seeing abers who believe that if anything is wrong is someones environment its automatically them. I cant control others, Abe said that. All i have is myself to control, and i do the very best I can. I have someone in my life who is an old part of my life and is no longer valid. i spend my days best as i can away from this person, wrapped in joy, but lets see how you act if your with someone who blurts out several times a day that they cant take life anymore, that they want to kill themselves, and then you try staying on a high vibe which can work a good deal of the time but then there are days you dont understand why you cant just leave, but then you remember you have nowhere to go and have to wait for the energy to line up. my friend has a gun in the closet and by god she might just use it one day. but i suppose ill be told thats my fault too..no its not.

[Sukibuttons]

I get confused with this too... and every other time , I think it is ... matching vibrations...sorta like apples and oranges are both fruit ... so that when you match your vibration... to another even if they are not both fruits ...they actually do match in intensity. Please coreccte me if I am wrong...

And then ... I want to ask along with this...( hope I am not highjacking).. who says which comes first...chicken or egg...or who starts with the vibrating?????????

[Sukibuttons]

Alex , Sweet heart,

I am taking this to a new thread.... will try to explain xoxoxo[quote] I am not sure exactly what you are asking Suki You get what you focus on, and what you believe, and what you think[/quote