Appreciation for Self Expansion

[Stefan1968]

I love my Guides and Angels - Kwan Yin, Gabriel and Raphael and others - thank you, especially Michael for protection, clearing and cutting away the detritus of this woman
I love how they always show me clearly and speak with me clearly as though they are right in front of me.
I love how when I wasn't listening or seeing clearly despite their efforts about this woman they gave me a gentle prod.
I love how I was able to see and hear how this woman wasn't good for me.
I love how they showed me that she was only into me for selfish reasons and ego.
I love how they showed me her decit and lack of enlightenment, caring giving
I love how they told me her spiritual work was still new and she wasn't being guided by the Higher Realm.
I love how they showed me her problems with her family.
I love how they showed and told me that she has a lot of issues to deal with of her own before she can give love and take love.
I love how regardless of how she used me as a doormat I will still love her as a person and send her healing and love so one day she can be whole
I love how they are manifesting REAL love and a genuine, caring, loving, sharing, giving woman in my life. One who is enlightened and does REAL spiritual work.

Stefan

[Naturally]

Hello Stefan,
Appreciation to me is allowing - the title of your thread feels negative and pushing against what is not wanted. Chances are if your vibe is not 'cleaned' up, you will experience this again...and again.
From my observation in reading your post - it seems a tad bit judgemental. You attracted this woman into your life because you were a vibrational match to her. You guys were reflecting each other. And maybe your vibe shifted after you manifested her into your life - but making her out to be not real/not whole/egocentric/selfish-not a bad thing - being true to herself) is you not taking responsibility for your creation/part.
Did you invite her into your life to gain a platform where you can better focus on what you want in a partner? (that is selfish) selfish selfloving is a good thing :wink2:
IMHO, Only love is real, you can lovingly walk away from a person - you dont need to make them 'wrong' or not enlightened enough etc. Almost everyone you will meet is gonna have issues, its what you choose to see (depending on your vibe) that stands out.
I'm not saying this because I have it all figured out - I'm still expanding and allowing.
Wishing you well,
Naturally :heart:

[Stefan1968]

Hello Naturally,

Thank you for your response and observations. I too am ever expanding and learning so your observations are VERY much appreciated. Don't doubt your intuition.

Yes, perhaps judgemental and certainly I attracted her or we attracted each other. As you know, there are no mistakes in life - only lessons.

I do take responsibility for what manifested. And I learned many lessons and I myself and with the help of my Guides and Angels ahve cleaned things up.

I will have to figure out how to edit the subject line but even in that - you brought out a valuable lesson to us all - right?

One comment or question however - isn't there a difference in my word "Selfish" between being "self-caring" (We all should be this) and being "self- absorbed" or "self-centered"? In the later case - "get me this, get me that, take me here, take me there" Or "I, I, I or me, me, me" vs, "Us or We or Others". And yes, I did allow it for a time

I did lovingly walk away and send her my love and healing if she cares to accept.
AND again I appreciate and value your guidance.

Much love
Stefan

[Stefan1968]

I just edited the Subject line

Stefan

[Naturally]

Stefan, you have such a warm vibe...I'm basking in it deliciously :hug:

Yes you are right- the selfishness that comes at the expense on another is not the same as selfloving/caring. When you love yourself, you come from that vibrational stance of Love and that translates in how you interact with others.

Good thing she came into your life - now you can shoot an even stronger rocket of desire for your beloved to come. Check out Shari's posts on Jeshua (its under inspirational quotes). LINK: f11/2234.html (http://abetalk.com/f11/2234.html)

Natrually :heart:

[Stefan1968]

Thank you again Naturally and thank you for the link the Shari's post! Very enlightened.

And thank the Unoiverse and All for the lessons learned

I too feel your warm vibe.

Stefan