Cantabile
Mon Apr 07 2008, 1:28am
They say that you don't have to force anyone into it without them asking for it. They say that we don't rob someone else'd freedom to force them into wanting them to like what you want.
I am glad to say that I didn't force anyone into this. Especially my husband.
It was when last night, his family and he had a fight with each other. His Mom and his sister wanted him out of the house. I arrived a little late to be lucky to miss all of that. :shock:
When he calmed down, I reminded him again that blaming will only make things worst and that we are all responsible for our own maturity. Whatever happened today and in the past is our own doing.
(My husband and I, we seldom fight. I think that I really am the type of person who look at people's best, this is what I so love about myself.)
Then I told him all about the law of attraction, a small part about Abraham and Theo. I feel that he is very interested about these. I smiled at him and say that everything is going to be alright. I told him, let's ride the current with joy and love.
His reactions told me that he is very interested and is happy to hear these from me. I may have only told him of the things that he wants to hear. But that made a big difference already.
I am seeing small changes. I am happy about this. I can see that he has relaxed and lightened up. And as for me? I am no longer affected of the usual things that upset me. Instead I look at life in a relaxed manner because I know we're taken care of and we are loved.
I think he's getting the hang of it. I am excited.
Also, I am looking forward to move out with him and with my baby this August. We're imagining how our apartment would look like, we've already bought the appliances in our mind! It's fun to imagine these with him.
:biggrin: :dance:
I am glad to say that I didn't force anyone into this. Especially my husband.
It was when last night, his family and he had a fight with each other. His Mom and his sister wanted him out of the house. I arrived a little late to be lucky to miss all of that. :shock:
When he calmed down, I reminded him again that blaming will only make things worst and that we are all responsible for our own maturity. Whatever happened today and in the past is our own doing.
(My husband and I, we seldom fight. I think that I really am the type of person who look at people's best, this is what I so love about myself.)
Then I told him all about the law of attraction, a small part about Abraham and Theo. I feel that he is very interested about these. I smiled at him and say that everything is going to be alright. I told him, let's ride the current with joy and love.
His reactions told me that he is very interested and is happy to hear these from me. I may have only told him of the things that he wants to hear. But that made a big difference already.
I am seeing small changes. I am happy about this. I can see that he has relaxed and lightened up. And as for me? I am no longer affected of the usual things that upset me. Instead I look at life in a relaxed manner because I know we're taken care of and we are loved.
I think he's getting the hang of it. I am excited.
Also, I am looking forward to move out with him and with my baby this August. We're imagining how our apartment would look like, we've already bought the appliances in our mind! It's fun to imagine these with him.
:biggrin: :dance: