Worry

[Mariposa]

He you guys... I am wanting to move on from this place of fear and worry I'm at right now.

Some1 in my family has lost a lot of weight. They wanted to lose the over weight but now it look like things have gotten a little outta hand and they look really under the healthy weight. We are all worried since it's been a huge change for us, after 10 months of not seeing them.

It feel like TOTAL CRAP to be this worried and fearful for a loved one's health. The more I beat the drum of it the worse I feel, I feel powerless and scared that they may lose any more weight, since they seem to love being this skinny, but we who know them can tell... it doesn't look healthy.

Please some words of love and advice...

[Mariposa]

thanks you guys... :hug:

[River]

But when you say:

But I do know that it would feel good when it does;
and I do know that I deserve good things to happen to me;
and I do know that law of attraction is responsive;
and I do know that I have been worrying;
and I do know that the worry that I have been having and the worry that I am getting now are all a vibrational match;
and I do know that it’s possible for me to think differently and feel differently;
and I do know I haven’t been doing a very good job of that;
so I do know the results I have been getting are appropriate to how I have been thinking and feeling;
and I do like the idea that I am in charge of my thoughts;
and I do like the idea that my emotions tell me whether I am helping myself or hindering myself;
and I do like it when I change the subject and my worry lifts;
and I do like it when I think about all the things in my life that are going well that bring me no worry;
and I do like knowing that the universe is responsive to my vibration;
and I do like knowing that I can offer a vibration deliberately;
and I do like knowing that I can get better at that;
and I do like knowing that nothing’s gone really wrong because I can get to anywhere I want to be from where I am;
and I do like knowing that when I am living what I don’t want, I am more clear about what I do want so even when it’s not manifesting the way I want it to, I do know that my vibrational escrow is improving;
and I do like knowing that all that I want is in that vibrational escrow;
and I do like knowing that the universe is aware of that;
and I do like knowing that law of attraction is responding to that vibrational escrow;
and I do like knowing that the larger part of me is already over there reaping the benefit of having lived all of that;
and I like knowing that the larger part of me KNOWS that it will be good for me and is calling me toward it;
and I do like knowing that when I hear the call and move in that direction I feel good;
and I do like knowing that when I don’t move in that direction, but in the other direction, I feel bad;
I do like knowing that I am consciously aware of my worry because I do like knowing that my worry is my indication that I’m not letting it happen;
I do like knowing all of that; and I do like knowing that I can find thoughts that feel less and less worry; and I do like knowing that now I feel inspired to do that;
I do like knowing that Esther and Jerry, as much as they know about deliberate creation, still, often, are hung up on telling things like they are;
I do like knowing that it is sort of a natural impulse to report in on how things are;
and I do like knowing that the reporting in on how thing are is what slows us all up and makes us not get to where we really want to be as quickly as we could;
I do like knowing that;
and I do like knowing that where I am is not a bad place;
I do like the feeling of making peace with where I am;
I do like knowing that I am a powerful being;
and I do like knowing how good it’s going to feel when it breaks loose for me;
and I do like the feeling of hope that it will break loose for me;
and I am looking forward to the feeling of knowing that it will break loose for me;
but meanwhile, I’m going to opt for the feeling of hope because it feels so much better than the feeling of worry, and the more I think here, the feeling of worry is beginning to feel a little ridiculous to me because I am beginning to realize that the feeling that I have is in response to my thought, not in response to the reality.

And the only thing that has been messing me up is that I’ve been thinking about what is, and therefore messing up the reality. It’s my thoughts that create not the reality that creates.

OH, there it is, OH there it is! OH there it is! OOOHHHHH there it is!

My manifestation is an indication. It’s not the creational point. It’s not the creation power. My observation of what is, my thought about ‘what is’ is what’s creating into the future. “What is” is just an indicator. Don’t you loving knowing that?

“What is” doesn’t mean diddly squat!
“What is” has no power!
“What is” is just the evidence of how I have been offering vibration!
“What is” is an indicator, that’s all, an indicator, that’s all.
What matters is my thought about “what is.”

And my thought about “what is” is that it is temporary. It’s full of information. It’s contrasting so it helps me get clear.

“What is” is my vantage point, it’s my launching pad. But mostly, it’s temporary.

What matters is what I am thinking and feeling. And what I am thinking is this is going to break loose. And what I am thinking is I will not be sad for the experience.

What I’m thinking is, it will all work out fine.
What I’m thinking is, I KNOW it’s going to work out fine.
What I’m thinking is, it’s in the process of working out fine.
What I’m thinking is, I’ve been worried erroneously and unnecessarily.
What I’m thinking is I’m pretty glad for this experience.
What I’m thinking is, I’m feeling my power.
What I’m thinking is I’ve shifted my vibration.
What I’m thinking is, I’ve changed my vibrational point of attraction.
What I’m thinking is, I’m matching what is my vibrational escrow.
What I’m thinking is, things must improve because you can’t feel better without getting better results. It’s law!

Hot Seater: I feel great already. I really appreciate your work. Thank you very much.

Abraham: Yes indeed.

Abraham-Hicks CD-7/28/07 - San Francisco, CA

:heart: Shannon

[yeslist]

Your feeling of worry has nothing to do with them. It is all in you. harsh words? maybe, but you are the one experiencing the resistance, not them. To overcome: recognise that emotional indicator and ask yourself why do i feel this way? define your state of being by getting honest with your own vibrational relationship and then refine it to a better place(that will be reveal through the defining process) so that your point of attraction is also lifted to a better recieving vibe.
All sounds very mechanical but give it a try and see if you feel better at the other end.
Cheers
Simon