You and your "significant other"

[Freshmixture]

Hey folks,

Back ago, I had some issues, and admitantly still do a little, with what I know and what my wife thinks about it.

I worked through it with the help of Jack and Andrew and I am about 95% good with it all. I am me, she is her. It's all good. I benefit from everything. I don't add energy to a fight etc.

I was curious on how you and your "other half" feels about what you know.... :biggrin:

Cheers!

Fresh...........is...........the Freshmaker

[Jen415]

Hmm...interesting question, Freshy! My SO is NOT spiritual in any way....interestingly enough though, he's a natural Aber! He just doesnt know it! But he is cool with me going my way and doing my thing!

Luckily I have a dear friend who is an Aber that I can share Abe stuff with....it helps balance me out!

:heart: Jen

[Freshmixture]

That is lucky indeed.....

I got that by my interaction with the Enlightened Bastards show over a TalkShoe. I really got that when I attended a Abe seminar last fall.......now that was awesome. I even got in the "hot seat".....last one too.

Everyone around me feels that I'm wrong and or in some sort of cult. That's what I must be what I'm portraying to them.....and that's fine. I do "egg on" others, not as much as I used to, about how I AM GOD and I am above all others. I exaggrated this to my religious friends which I love to do. I have such a great time telling them how I create all in my life and that the bible is nothing more than a fictional novel. That really gets them going. But I really don't care who or what they follow, but I DO LOVE to "stur the pot".

For the longest time I was adding so much energy to the fight with me and my wife regarding the above paragraph. Now I am much easier about all of it and have fun with the religious stuff with my best friend and the Jehovah Witlesses at work..... rofl I'm reallt starting to portray a much more positive, joyful personallity and now I'm getting the "I am glad you got away from that cult stuff". When all I've really done is "read and posted" less and "enjoyed and appreciated" more. I used to get so hung up and reading and not doing before. But it getting so much better now... :dance:

Cheers!

Fresh

[PaulaPereira]

Hey fresh, I am glad you are creating something for yourself that feels cozy like a warm sock:)

My boyfriend was an Aber when I first met him (14 months ago) and I hadn't heard of it until I met him. He had already been living the Abe to the best of his ability for about 5 years or something like that. At first I was intrigued by the whole idea that you could just talk about something and it would appear. However, once you really get into Abe you go down this path of self-love and self-acceptance, learning how to take responsability for your own happiness, learning to find better-feeling thoughts, learning to dream bigger and not just what you think you can achieve by your own limitations, etc. I mean I could go on and on but I think all you Abers know what I mean. Anyhow, we had our share of fights too because I just couldn't understand how someone else could feel so good when their signficant other wasn't. However, he always stuck to what he believed in and I always saw that everytime I was feeling powerless or frustrated I was having all these stupid things happening to me. When I felt good nothing "bad" happened to me and somewhere in their the light finally showed a little brighter and I said "aha!" There is something going on here, I see a pattern here, you bet your ass I did rofl

I am very appreciative for our realtionship and all that I have created in it. I see it becoming even more joyful now, even more beutiful, even more blissful, and even more loving then ever before.

With love,
Paula

[Cantabile]

This is an interesting topic, Fresh. :wave:

Well, my significant other's doing his thing as I do with mine. But every now and then, when I feel that he wants to hear more from Abe's teachings---I tell him some that I really know by heart. As we all know, we don't take other's freewill to choose what they want to know and believe in. :winking:

Like Fresh, I don't add energy to a fight. I really am uncomfortable with arguments, fights and especially shouting. :shock: It drains the heck of me. :shock:

Being with my love and his family. It was one heck of a ride already. Theirs was a huge contrast to the environment that I have grown into. My mom smothered us with love and even now she was always loving and sweet to us. His family on the other hand, was the opposite. There was never a day that I see them at peace. o.o So what I do with this situation is I keep quiet. Calm myself and not take sides. I mean, I am the last person who blows the steam. Well, I have invited all of these things into my life anyway. :shock:

Now looking at it. I am thinking. Let go of your worries to all of that. Have fun. I'm always thinking of having a happy time with my husband and my baby. I am always thinking of having our own home and start anew where the environment is happy and bright and that money is not a problem because it's overflowing in our pockets.
I want to be a great mother to my child. To be able to hold him and tell him that he was born into this world not because he was born for us, and that he can do whatever he desires beyond his imagining. I want to tell him that Mommy is going to be better. That everyday, she is becoming happier.

This excitement that I have is a contrast to everything in where I am living right now.

And I hope that when I get so good at this, my light will shine through everyone that I love.

Let go and have fun it should be. :roll: :roll: :roll:

[asjairok]

Hey folks,

Back ago, I had some issues, and admitantly still do a little, with what I know and what my wife thinks about it.

I worked through it with the help of Jack and Andrew and I am about 95% good with it all. I am me, she is her. It's all good. I benefit from everything. I don't add energy to a fight etc.

I was curious on how you and your "other half" feels about what you know.... :biggrin:

Cheers!

Fresh...........is...........the Freshmaker
well I said to my boyfriend my view about what he knows, and in my view :mrgreen: there is nothing wrong how I behave. I said to him that if he would let me in peace I would do more,because I would be rested and fulfilled and then everything go easy for me, but if he is working things on the house from his frustration, it can't move me for a centimeter. And this is also bad for him, because he would feel much better if he would fulfill himself.
About the things that I know about him, I work on myself. I know that only my projection finds it in him, and if I projected it better... :roll: :biggrin: :heart: , So I sometimes imagine how would I like it to happen, how and what he would do.., and that really helps me.

[Cantabile]

:hug: Thanks for sharing that wonderful story Rocknrollgoddess! I have read your blog. And I can say that yes, contrast makes life exciting. :D

[Better Every Day]

Hmm...interesting question, Freshy! My SO is NOT spiritual in any way....interestingly enough though, he's a natural Aber! He just doesnt know it! But he is cool with me going my way and doing my thing!

Luckily I have a dear friend who is an Aber that I can share Abe stuff with....it helps balance me out!

:heart: Jen


What she said! For sure. My DH is a natural Aber. All he cares about is that I am happy and not a bitch.

:queen:
He does not question it. If wearing an orange hat and a weasel around my neck kept me happy, he would be all for it!

rofl

Actually, he studied a lot of quantum physics stuff in college, so he is pretty interested in metaphysical stuff. I am very lucky and have a lot of support.
:heart:
When I tried to tell my mom about Esther and that she channels Abraham, she said "what is the difference between that and being schitzophrenic?" nevemind. I won't bring it up again!
rofl

[asjairok]

Hmm...interesting question, Freshy! My SO is NOT spiritual in any way....interestingly enough though, he's a natural Aber! He just doesnt know it! But he is cool with me going my way and doing my thing!

Luckily I have a dear friend who is an Aber that I can share Abe stuff with....it helps balance me out!

:heart: Jen


What she said! For sure. My DH is a natural Aber. All he cares about is that I am happy and not a bitch.

:queen:
He does not question it. If wearing an orange hat and a weasel around my neck kept me happy, he would be all for it!

rofl

Actually, he studied a lot of quantum physics stuff in college, so he is pretty interested in metaphysical stuff. I am very lucky and have a lot of support.
:heart:
When I tried to tell my mom about Esther and that she channels Abraham, she said "what is the difference between that and being schitzophrenic?" nevemind. I won't bring it up again!
rofl
The difference is that shizophrenic people are not connected to the Source, they are in fear. There are so many people that we name by the same name: shizophrenic, and some of then become aware that they have telepathic abilities.., and are on their way to discover their state by the means of truth.
But main difference between what Esther is doing and this shizophrenia, is that Esther feels ever so good and this is only good, and better for her life. It has positive effects on her life. We are very quick to put some name to other human: shizophrenic!!! But They are just treated very bad and medicine has no answers, and medicine is official, and alternative medicine, people that are working with spiritual world have answers,and this shizophrenic guys are only victims of this society-but all is well. Shizophrenic people just don't know how to name this events they are going thought.So they are afraid. Even more because other people say to them that this what they see doesn't exist.
Ok I know that this wasn't your question :D :P But I wanted to write it :D :loveflag:

[sara]

GOOD FOR YOU ANA!!!! :wave: :wave: :wave: :wave:
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